Sorry i have been so slack with my posting, I have been busy with everyday life, and trying to get the final touches done for Sarah’s Charms,
also i have been doing a lot of talking on Takin Time Out as well
The boys have been pretty full on as well, they have been throwing full on tantrums, so i have been trying to deal with those as well, and trying to find ways to stop the tantrums, though so far i have come up short,
1 girl and 3 boys 
When I was a child my parents taught myself and my siblings that tantrums only work if people will pay attention to you. We were sent to our rooms to pout by ourselves and allowed to return when we were willing to act like big kids. I don’t know if that would work for you, but it worked for me. I didn’t bother with tantrums knowing that I would just get a time-out by myself.
I have tried time outs they hardly work, though i guess if i keep it up they will eventually get the hint
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